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Private Practice
I have observed that many forms of "help" are not effective because:
 | No matter how much pain and confusion people experience - they often
passively resist change or actively refuse change |
| People often direct their focus on their past rather than on learning how
to be present - right here, right now |
| People have succumbed to the cultural mindset of being passively fixed
rather than learning to proactively empower themselves |
| Beliefs and defenses permeate people's consciousness - "help me, but do it
in the manner that I want to be helped" |
| People don't recognize the difference between "coping" and "learning"
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What a person needs:
| Those who suffer from a physiological imbalance or injury, may benefit from
the help of a competent medical doctor |
| Those who have suffered from psycho-injury or psycho-trauma, may benefit from the help of a
compassionate psycho-therapist |
| Those who are confused or in crisis; facing the problems and
decisions that confront them, may benefit from the help of a wise counselor |
| Those who seek freedom from the restrictions, limitations, and
contradictions of their conflicting biological and cultural inheritances may benefit from learning Third Order
Intelligence |
"The mind, once
expanded to the dimensions of larger ideas,
never returns to its original size." ~ Oliver Wendell Holmes
Based on over thirty years of experience, I use an educational model rather
than a psychotherapy or counselor model.
I observe that most people need to learn:
| What their hard-wired skills and weaknesses are |
| What their cultural biases and prejudices are |
| What their true needs are |
| How to empower themselves |
| Skills to accomplish their intrapersonal and interpersonal goals |
| What it is like to experience life as a matured being |
| How to not identify with their brain's output (the tail wagging the dog) |
| True accountability and integrity as contrasted with the social appearance
of accountability and integrity |
In learning Third Order Intelligence one learns to meet these needs, how to
use their full brain, and how to integrate the full use of their brain.
The result of learning these simple things is freedom from emotional pain
(anxiety and depression) and mental anguish (confusion and mystification).
Educate and Empower your Self
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